If
you would like someone to change, send him or her positive images. For
instance, say you want a person to be nicer to you. Rather than
criticize (which sends a negative picture and reinforces the very
behavior you would like to see changed), imagine the person being nice
to you. Rather than point out the person's faults, acknowledge and
praise each instance of kindness toward you that you would like to see
more of.
Personal Power Through Awareness
