“If
I can provide a certain type of relationship, the other person will
discover within himself the capacity to use that relationship for
growth, and change and personal development will occur.”
“It
seems that gradually, painfully, the individual explores what is behind
the masks he presents to the world, and even behind the masks with
which he has been deceiving himself… Thus to an increasing degree he
becomes himself—not a façade of conformity to others, not a cynical
denial of all feeling, nor a front of intellectual rationality, but a
living, breathing, feeling, fluctuating process—in short, he becomes a
person.”