“If
 I can provide a certain type of relationship, the other person will 
discover within himself the capacity to use that relationship for 
growth, and change and personal development will occur.”
“It
 seems that gradually, painfully, the individual explores what is behind
 the masks he presents to the world, and even behind the masks with 
which he has been deceiving himself… Thus to an increasing degree he 
becomes himself—not a façade of conformity to others, not a cynical 
denial of all feeling, nor a front of intellectual rationality, but a 
living, breathing, feeling, fluctuating process—in short, he becomes a 
person.”