You
 are most affected by other people's energy when you are judgmental or 
critical.  If you look at people and think, "They ought to work harder, 
get their act together," these thoughts pull their negative energy into 
you.  Get in touch with that gentle loving part of you, your higher and 
wiser self, that guides you into being more loving, and send people love
 and positive thoughts.
Personal Power Through Awareness