If
you focus on something that is wrong with another person, you can make
it even larger. The things that were working in your relationship
before will stop working. On the other hand, if you focus on bringing
out the good in other people, seeing their beauty and sharing with them
what you love about them, you will find the areas that were giving you
problems beginning to resolve themselves, even though you have not
worked directly on finding solutions.
Living With Joy
