Learn
to recognize when you are helping others because you feel that they do
not have the strength or ability to solve their own problems. When you
feel an urge to help people in a way that will "save" them or take away
their lessons, stop! You may find that your desire to help others really
comes from your own need to feel better and to have less concern and
worry about their problems. Assume that people have the ability to solve
their own problems, even if you cannot see how they will
Soul Love