Most of us learned as we were growing up to define our worth by our looks, performance, and achievements, and this creates many problems.
What happens when you get older and lose some of your looks? What happens if you stop being as productive at work, or you retire? Does this mean that you now have less worth? This is the problem with attaching your worth to looks, achievements or performance.
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