There is always a way for both people to win. If it still appears to you that for one of you to win the other has to lose, you have not arrived at the higher solution yet. The higher solution will always be a win for both people, with both their higher goals being met. To find this higher solution, first ask yourself, "What are the real issues? What is really important for me to have?" Question yourself honestly about what you need to meet your goals. Often you are fighting about one thing when the issue is something else entirely. Then, work together to find a solution.
Creating Money: Attracting Abundance